When you’re in the room, it’s as though no one else exists. You wish you could put your finger on it, but even if you could who would you ask? How does anyone who hasn’t dated one know they are involved with a gold digger? They would either tell you you’re imagining things and she’s the best thing that ever happened to you, or to dump her. Better to know what you’re dealing with and then make a decision. If you tell one, you may as well tell them all as they rush to warn the rest of your tribe to be on high alert on your behalf. What you find may be valuable to you, for a number of reasons, in the long run. In order to be concerned about a gold digger, one must have gold to dig.
Is she really that into you, or are you dating a gold digger? Let’s look at key areas, and if an alarm goes off in any, just like with a metal detector, it may be worth having a closer look.
Which is to say she will walk into your world as though she belongs there, and will do her best to cement her place immediately.
A tell-tale sign is her outward displays on social media.
It was 2005's second-longest running number one on the Billboard Hot 100 behind "We Belong Together" by Mariah Carey and is the joint sixth longest ever at ten weeks.
At the 2006 Grammy Awards, "Gold Digger" was nominated for Record of the Year and won the award for Best Rap Solo Performance.
She’s everything that you ever dreamed of, a nd more. Better to decide of your own volition first, rather than taint the proverbial friend waters with your suspicions. Firstly, let’s assume you’re an interesting guy with much to offer the right woman. Are your responses to simple questions fielded as though you were about to spill the beans on the coordinates of the Fountain of Youth?
Eventually, if not sooner, when dating a gold digger the focus will turn to her status. A woman who is with you for you, and not just for what you can do for her will respect both. When all else fails, the ultimate test for a gold digger is how she treats those that are in no position to do anything for her.
Are you sponsoring her, namely in all things external? Obviously, it’s another thing entirely if you’re sponsoring her, internally. And such, the money you spend is a representation of yours, especially if you earned it. If she fails that test, you’ll know it’s time to walk away.
Unless her panning kit and sluice boxes just arrived from Gold Fever Prospecting.com, we can assume she does not fit the first definition. How does one really know if one is, in fact, dating a gold digger?
Merriam Webster offers us two definitions, “one who digs for gold” as well as “a person who uses charm to extract money or gifts from others.” Next, let’s eliminate.